Optimizing Understanding Of Children's Values In Improving Children's Quality

Abstract

The presence of children in the family can mean different things to different parents. It will indirectly affect the aspects that are prioritized in parenting. Therefore, this article will discuss the value of children to parents in depth. This research used a mixed-method approach. Sampling was conducted using stratified random sampling in 7 Community Health Centers in July-August 2019. Data were collected using questionnaires through interviews and focus group discussions. Data were processed using the IBM SPSS Statistics program and analyzed descriptively. This research shows that functional/instrumental value is the value most perceived by parents in Surabaya (39.09%). In addition, the people of Surabaya consider no difference in values ​​and upbringing between boys and girls (52.73%). Their love for their toddlers is shown through excellent and affectionate care (88.2%). The happiest thing for parents with children is having friends and entertainment (43.6%). Surabaya society perceives children more in terms of functional/instrumental values. The functional value of children is so important to parents that parents must try to show affection. It is done through caring for the child lovingly and adequately, providing education, health care, and an appropriate environment.